If you were dumped, I recommend saying what you have to say at the beginning with grace. This means she still finds you desirable. Maybe she'll just stop and stare at you for a couple of seconds.
When she runs into you, she gives you this wide-eyed look of longing. This is a big indication she still has feelings for you.
She gets mad and emotional when she sees you with someone else or hears about a date you recently went on. If you broke up on good terms, she still feels comfortable around you, and she could be interested in getting back together. She continues to open up to you about her emotions. She still calls you from time to time this can mean that she still likes you and values having a conversation with you. She posts moody status updates on social media that reveal how much she misses being with you. She doesn't start dating anyone else and stays single. She randomly sends you a nostalgia text, something along the lines of "remember when we did this"? Nostalgia = return. She tries to add you on random social media, including Linkedin, Instagram, and Snapchat. This means that you are clearly still on her mind. You get a drunk text or a phone call from her. You have more control by being nice that's why I'm encouraging you to handle this situation like a pro. She'll make up an excuse, but she's really testing the waters. Your ex comes up with a strange excuse to see you maybe she came to drop off a sweater of yours, maybe she wants to pick something up from you. Your friends may drop a hint that your ex still talks about you. Those friends all seem pleasant around you. You hear from mutual friends or get the vibe from mutual friends that she still likes you. Or if keeping you on Facebook makes sense. I don't think there are hard numbers for whether deleting someone actually makes sense.
Did she delete you off Facebook? Some say this means she'll just return right back to you, and she was emotionally charged at the time she broke up with you. It wouldn't be that bad to see each other again. You guys didn't break up on bad terms. Photo by Elijah O'Donnell from Pexels Signs Your Ex Girlfriend Wants You Back He said compliments to you during the breakup rather than insults-"you're beautiful," "you don't deserve this," "you are funny," "you are kind," "I liked our friendship,". He often got jealous of other guys, so he can't quite commit to you being in someone else's arms. He had to focus on all that, and so they dropped you. He had too much on his mind with a new job, a new town, a new everything. He called you kind, not a curse word, when he departed the relationship. You didn't act like a total spazz during the breakup but kept it classy and kind. A lot of people don't change and are not worth your time. You get the impression that if he clarifies his emotions, he'll be able to come back to you with a whole heart ready for action. What does his past say about his relationships?
In his past, he would return to his exes for another try. He only deleted you off Facebook he didn't purge you from all social media. No one writes handwritten letters anymore. You receive a handwritten letter from him. You get a call from his mother that he really misses you. Maybe he was waiting for the big move for a breakup, but if you really have feelings, then distance won't kill it. You broke up because of long-distance. Most people say once they let the door close on their ex, and they really were able to move on, that's when the ex popped right back into their lives. Instead, you went out and rebuilt your life. You haven't been waiting for his beck and call.
After a couple of months of no contact, you get a message or two.